Friday 30 July 2010

CREATING POSSIBILITY FOR TRANSFORMATION

CREATING POSSIBILITY FOR TRANSFORMATION



Given that much of our life is lived in pretense, from the construct of ego, becoming present to that which is hidden, to who we are being in life, is absolutely necessary for transformation. It is in that which is primarily hidden from us that one will discover what is determining ones life, referred to here as ones self-limiting belief. The first component of the transformational process is for one to become present to the hidden thoughts and beliefs that have been limiting him in life and in particular to his self-limiting belief. It is in the being of the self-limiting belief that one will discover the primary constraint or barrier to his life, to him living a life that he loves and living it powerfully. We live life from who we think we are. Who we think we are forms the context for our life. Having the awareness or distinction of the self-limiting belief allows one the ability to not be it, to not have his life be merely the probable almost certain future from the past. Without the distinction of the self-limiting belief one will continue to create his life from the backdrop of this ideational barrier and as a result life will appear much as it did in the past.

Becoming present to that which has been hidden, to that which has been truly determining his being in life, allows one the opportunity to transform his life. Once one gets who he has been being in life, the second component of transformative process is for the individual to begin to create his life as a possibility. Once the distinction of the self-limiting belief is gotten, the individual is now able to truly create a new possibility for himself and his life. Getting the self-limiting belief creates the space or an opening for a possibility or possibilities to be invented not as a result or product of the barrier or constraint but from or out of nothing. It is only from nothing that possibility can truly be created. As with the self-limiting belief, possibility exists in language. Once one gets the language that he has been being, that has defined and limited him through being his self-limiting belief, it is at this point that he can begin to recreate himself through the power of his word. Who we are is our word. In is in ones language or word created out of nothing that one has access to possibility and transformation.

The technique described below is designed to assist an individual in becoming present to his self-limiting belief and in the process to create the space or opening for him to invent a possibility or possibilities for recreating his life.

1. Find a relaxing and comfortable space to sit in for approximately one hour. Arrange for this space to be free of any distractions. Just allow yourself to begin to relax. Become present to where and who you are. The use of therapeutic relaxation music can promote the development of a very profound sense of relaxation to enhance this experience.

2. Take a notebook and begin to write down everything that you believe describes or defines who you are. Let your mind wander and do not try to filter or block out anything. Just let whatever comes up about yourself, how you feel and what you think about yourself, to be written down. Who you think you are or that which bests describes you may appear in single words or short phrases. If in a group, share your description of yourself with others. Furthermore, make two lists as there will appear to be both positives and negatives aspects about who you think you are.

3. Sit your notebook down, close your eyes and begin to relax deeply again. Again, the use of therapeutic relaxation music will assist you in the process of creating a very deep state of relaxation. As you begin to move into a deep state of relaxation allow yourself to begin to drift back through time, back through your life, back through your adulthood, adolescence and into your childhood. Allow yourself to become present to how you were being, experiences, thoughts and feelings, through the various phases or stages of your life. Just become present to or notice what appears for you.

4. Open your eyes and return to work on your notebook. Take a look at what you have written and add anything that you became present to about yourself during the above mentioned relaxation exercise. Again, do not filter out anything but merely allow whatever there is to come to the surface, both the positive and negative words that best describes who you think and feel you are or were.

5. Once you have come to a completion of creating the lists, both positive and negative, consider that the positives of who you think yourself to be form the pretense of your life and that their design or function is to fix the negatives of who you think you are.

6. Allow yourself to become present to the negatives you have written down. Notice which one of the negatives best describes who you are, what you commonly believe and feel about yourself, what you have experienced in your mind in the past and even now. Declare the negative aspect that is familiar to you to be your self-limiting belief.

7. Place your notebook in your lap. Allow yourself to become fully present to the fact that what you have written is you, is who you believe yourself to be. Become present to an inauthentic way of being, the positive as pretense and the negatives as that which we hide from ourselves and the world.

8. Place the notebook into your past. If you are right handed place your notebook to your left. If you are left handed place your notebook to your right. Place the notebook approximately three feet from you.



9. Once you place your notebook into your past allow yourself to become present to where your notebook is in relation to your body, to your right or left. Allow yourself to again become present to that which you have written in your notebook is who you believe you are and that it exists to either your right or left.

10. Once you become present to who you believe yourself to be, to the description of yourself as you have written, allow yourself to become present to what now lies in front of you. Given that who you think you are is either to your left or right, become present to what exists in front of you is nothing, an opening from which everything and anything is possible and can be created.

11. Inside the nothing that appears in front of you, invent a possibility or possibilities for yourself and your life. Declare your possibility in language or word, of who you will take on being in life, for yourself. Furthermore, this declaration becomes your personal affirmation of who you will be in and for the world.

12. Repeat this exercise everyday. Repeating this exercise daily will allow one to continue to stay present to his self limiting belief so as to not be it and also to the possibility or possibilities that he has created and invented for himself and his life. Continuing this exercise will also allow the further possible unveiling of the self-limiting belief. The self-limiting belief that one initially becomes present to may reveal even deeper meaning for who one is or has been being.

The exercise outlined above is about the work of the first two components of Transformational Counseling and one beginning the process of transformation. Once one gets the distinction of his self-limiting belief and creates a possibility or possibilities for himself and his life, the third component of transformation involves learning the process of enrollment. Enrollment is a powerful technique for allowing one to stay living into his possibility and out of his self-limiting belief. The fourth component of transformation is about creating a daily plan. The daily plan allows one the opportunity to continue to live into or generate his possibility in his life on a daily basis. The fifth component of transformation involves a commitment to stay in the conversation of transformation. It is in staying in the conversation that one experiences the nonlinear nature of transformation thereby keeping the process alive in his life.

Harry Henshaw, Ed.D., LMHC http://www.enhancedhealing.com





Forex Robot Advantages

Forex Robot Advantages


We might already have an idea what a Forex robot can do for Forex traders. Forex robot manufacturers would claim that this technology enabled them to gain more profit, but aside from this, what other advantages can a Forex robot give.

It is not unusual for a trader to a lose because of backing out from a deal that they think would end up in losing, only to figure out that this trade would go for the better. Emotions can influence traders and make them indecisive. This psychological factor is actually one of the major problems a Forex robot addresses.

Forex robots can eliminate the factor that human emotions could interfere with a deal. Aside from human emotions, robots could also eliminate user and manual error. Forex robots, deprived of any emotions, would be able to logically and rationally analyze the trading signals and determine if the deal is profitable or not.

A forex robot could maintain constant operation. It could manage and trade your account without you having to do any manual trading on your own. It constant monitoring would help a trader cope and analyze trading charts. Forex robots do not only monitor a determined or particular currency pair, but could almost analyze and monitor all the currencies.

Being able to monitor all of the currencies in the Forex market, would help you identify possible trades where you can get more profit. Its monitoring and updates are actually real-time monitoring. Keeping in tabs with the development of the trading market real-time, could give you an edge if you would like to pursue the transaction. There are some automated systems that would only monitor a currency pair, but Forex robots could analyze about 20 trading signals and determine deals of several currency pairs.

Aside from monitoring different currency pairs, you could trade in different markets, in different time zones. But still, it would be based on the market and business hours. But commonly, Forex market operates 24 hours a day weekdays.

It could even be programmed to determine points where you would like to place an order or exit a deal. This characteristic would allow traders to be able to enter trading deals without being present. This means more flexibility. You could do other work while your program would do the trading for you. This is great especially for those who has limited time in trading because of time constraints.

A Forex robot could also trade in real time. It could close on deals and handle transactions in seconds. Manual trading would not be able to do this. But mathematically speaking, robots could be a deal smarter than people. And Forex robots intend to determine the how you can get higher profits and trades in a short period of time given several indicators and factors.



In international trading like Forex trading, the most difficult part could be getting the payments. Sometimes, there are risks of delayed and worse, non-payment. Using a Forex robot would minimize this risk since the purchases will be coordinated with the software.

There are great benefits a trader could reap from using a Forex robot, you just to make sure that the robot that you would get will work for you. So you have to do some research and look for your best option. This would improve your profitability in the Forex market.